What if being a true "alpha" isn't about being the loudest or the strongest in the room? What if real leadership is less about dominance and more about knowing when to show strength and when to lead with discernment?

In this article, I explore why the classic "alpha male" mindset might be leading us astray and how the most effective leaders—whether in the wild or in our daily lives—often lead with quiet confidence, wisdom, and a healthy dose of humor.

If you've ever felt the pressure to be the tough guy but wondered if there might be a better way, this one's for you.

Focused Wonder

The purpose of Focused Wonder is to foster connection and open communication with your kids, spouse, and friends. This section offers simple, focused questions designed to spark meaningful dialogue—whether at the dinner table, during a car ride, or at bedtime. Use these questions to build trust, curiosity, and laughter in your relationships.

1. What comes to mind when you hear the term “alpha male”? Do you think that definition still applies today?

2. Have you ever felt pressure to act more “alpha” in certain situations? How did that play out for you?

3. Can you think of a time when showing strength wasn’t the best approach, and a softer touch worked better?

4. What qualities do you think make a man a strong leader?

5. How do you try to lead in your own life—whether at work, with friends, or at home?

Focus in Motion

Curated videos to help make you think, to motivate, or to just laugh.