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Getting It Together: A Practical Guide for Guys Who Keep Putting It Off

Self-Improvement for Men Who Are Tired of Their Own Excuses

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Geoffrey Griffin
March 03, 2025

I used to believe that one day, I’d wake up and just get it together. No more procrastination, no more bad habits—just a perfectly disciplined version of myself.

Spoiler alert: that day never came.

If you’ve ever told yourself you’ll start tomorrow—only to find yourself in the same cycle months later—this one's for you.

Here’s what I’ve learned about making real, lasting change (without waiting for the perfect moment)

Is pushing kids to get good grades the fastest way to raise successful children?

Surprisingly, the answer is NO.

Focusing solely on academics makes up just a small part of what truly nurtures a child's self-belief and independence.

So what's the real game changer in raising unstoppable kids?

It’s all about getting them to learn critical life skills.

Did you know skills like problem-solving, creativity, financial literacy and resilience make the difference between those who succeed and those who struggle later in life?

This is way more impactful than just pushing for good grades.

Unfortunately, many parents waste hundreds of dollars every month on tutors and academic programs focusing only on rote learning.

While adding tremendous amounts of stress to young kids.

Smart parents are discovering this simple solution to spark their child's fire for self-driven achievement, raising confident leaders fast.

Focused Wonder

The purpose of Focused Wonder is to foster connection and open communication with your kids and spouse. This section offers simple, focused questions designed to spark meaningful dialogue—whether at the dinner table, during a car ride, or at bedtime. Use these questions to build trust, curiosity, and laughter in your relationships.

How did you feel this morning when you woke up? Why do you think that is"?

Focus in Motion

Curated videos to help make you think, to motivate, or to just laugh.