Let me start by saying this: I don’t have all the answers. In fact, I’m pretty sure I’m still figuring out most of the questions. But what I do know is this

—I’m a man, a husband, and a father who is striving to be better, not through grand epiphanies but through consistent, focused, and purposeful action. And along the way, I’m embracing the fact that I’m going to stumble, sometimes spectacularly. That’s the spirit behind "The Focused Fool."

The name itself is a balancing act. It’s about taking the pursuit of self-improvement seriously while keeping a sense of humor about the inevitable missteps. The title was inspired by Alex Hormozi’s quote, "A focused fool can accomplish more than a distracted genius."

It’s a reminder that effort and focus often outweigh raw talent—especially when you’re willing to learn from your mistakes. Life’s a messy process, after all, and trying to improve while raising a family, managing responsibilities, and navigating modern masculinity can feel like juggling flaming swords—with no prior training.

Focused Wonder

The purpose of Focused Wonder is to foster connection and open communication with your kids and spouse. This section offers simple, focused questions designed to spark meaningful dialogue—whether at the dinner table, during a car ride, or at bedtime. Use these questions to build trust, curiosity, and laughter in your relationships.

• Describe your dream vacation. Where would you go? Who would you go with? What would you do everyday? What would you eat?

• If you are asking your kids these questions you could have them make a collage of pictures that represents what their dream vacation would look like.

Focus in Motion