The Real Crisis Facing Men Today

Identity, Mental Health, and Masculinity

Author

Geoffrey Griffin
April 02, 2025

What does it really mean to be a man today? For generations, the blueprint seemed clear—strength, stoicism, providing, and protecting.

But now, young men are feeling more lost than ever. The Lost Boys: State of the Nation report reveals that boys are lagging behind girls in education and struggling to find purpose, with a staggering 40% increase in those not in education, employment, or training since the pandemic.

Modern dating is a minefield of mixed messages, where vulnerability is preached but rarely rewarded. And when it comes to mental health, the pressure to "man up" leaves countless men suffering in silence.

So, what’s the solution? It’s not about throwing out masculinity but expanding it. Strength and vulnerability aren’t opposites—they’re complementary. By embracing emotional openness, resilience, and authenticity, men can redefine what it means to be strong.

But real change doesn’t happen in isolation. It starts with us—modeling a better way for our sons, friends, and ourselves. Want to dive deeper? This is just the beginning.

Is pushing kids to get good grades the fastest way to raise successful children?

Surprisingly, the answer is NO.

Focusing solely on academics makes up just a small part of what truly nurtures a child's self-belief and independence.

So what's the real game changer in raising unstoppable kids?

It’s all about getting them to learn critical life skills.

Did you know skills like problem-solving, creativity, financial literacy and resilience make the difference between those who succeed and those who struggle later in life?

This is way more impactful than just pushing for good grades.

Unfortunately, many parents waste hundreds of dollars every month on tutors and academic programs focusing only on rote learning.

While adding tremendous amounts of stress to young kids.

Smart parents are discovering this simple solution to spark their child's fire for self-driven achievement, raising confident leaders fast.

Focused Wonder

The purpose of Focused Wonder is to foster connection and open communication with your kids and spouse. This section offers simple, focused questions designed to spark meaningful dialogue—whether at the dinner table, during a car ride, or at bedtime. Use these questions to build trust, curiosity, and laughter in your relationships.

What is a small gesture I can do to make your day better?

Focus in Motion

Curated videos to help make you think, to motivate, or to just laugh.