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Why Won’t My Kids Listen? (And How I’m the Problem)

How My Kids Are Teaching Me What Patience Really Looks Like

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Geoffrey Griffin
March 07, 2025

I used to think my kids had a listening problem—until I realized I’m the one who taught them not to listen. 

I tell them to be patient, but I interrupt their play for dinner. I expect them to drop everything when I call, yet I say, “Just a second” when they need me.

Turns out, they’re not defiant… they’re just really good at copying me.

So, if you’ve ever wondered why your kids ignore you, the answer might be staring back at you in the mirror. (Spoiler: It’s humbling.) Click to read how I’m working on not being the hypocrite in my house.

Is pushing kids to get good grades the fastest way to raise successful children?

Surprisingly, the answer is NO.

Focusing solely on academics makes up just a small part of what truly nurtures a child's self-belief and independence.

So what's the real game changer in raising unstoppable kids?

It’s all about getting them to learn critical life skills.

Did you know skills like problem-solving, creativity, financial literacy and resilience make the difference between those who succeed and those who struggle later in life?

This is way more impactful than just pushing for good grades.

Unfortunately, many parents waste hundreds of dollars every month on tutors and academic programs focusing only on rote learning.

While adding tremendous amounts of stress to young kids.

Smart parents are discovering this simple solution to spark their child's fire for self-driven achievement, raising confident leaders fast.

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